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I can’t say that I’m a fan of shopping on Black Friday — today — the biggest retail day of the year.
For starters, I hate shopping. I’d rather point-and-click than look for parking, fight crowds, try on clothes and stand in long lines. It’s less frustrating to wait for a website to load than to deal with pushy shoppers and irate sales associates who wish they were somewhere but working at the mall.
I mean, who wants to fight with what some industry folks are estimating to be as many as 138 million shoppers hitting malls across the country this weekend, 4 million more than last year, according to a story in the Wall Street Journal? Not me.
And yet it’s 12:45 a.m. on Black Friday and I’m contemplating which malls to hit in a few hours.
It’s not because I have a long list of Christmas gifts and a limited budget, where fighting crowds at Walmart (above) is worthwhile. I want to go because, well, it seems like a lot of fun.
I’ve covered Black Friday for The Honolulu Advertiser, when I was a city reporter there. I got to talk to people who left their Thanksgiving dinners early to wait in line at Circuit City or Toys “R” Us to get the latest electronics and toys at the lowest possible prices. They were into it, sitting in line on lawn chairs and coolers filled with enough snacks and caffeinated beverages to last them a week. And I thought to myself, “One day, I’m going to do this, too.”
There’s something exciting about being part of an event like this, where you’re chasing sales, talking strategy with other shoppers and suffering along with everyone else — crowded parking lots, long lines, rain, stores running out of the sale items — that makes you feel you’re part of something so much bigger than you. (Or your wallet.)
I’ve already set my alarm and packed my bag, ready to take on the determined shoppers out there, who will likely be gone — and with all the good stuff — by the time I hit the mall at 4 a.m.
But at least I was there.
— Nonstop blogger and freelance writer Catherine E. Toth didn’t think she was much of a shopper — until she saw her credit card statement last month.
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I also don’t do Black Friday. One, because it’s a regular work day for me. I gotta be in the office at 8am, and can’t be out all nite shopping. Two, I don’t think the savings that can be made are worth the effort, time, hassle, and stress levels due to crowds, traffic, standing in long lines etc. I see very little excitement and fun to be had. When I do decide to brave the shopping malls, I like to get in and get out asap. I park offsite. For the majority of the gifts and things I want, I’d rather buy online.
@CodyZamboni Although I’m my own boss and make my own hours, I’m glad to read I’m not the only one thinking like that lol
or……..you could go surfing, instead. you know, there’s a right way and a wrong way to do just about everything.
Cute cartoon from Shoebox about the “pros and cons” of Black Friday:
I’ve never been a fan of shopping on Black Friday, but I’ve always enjoyed people watching at the malls and stores.
12 hours of shopping today.
Shopping is one thing but I’ll leave the hassles of finding parking, standing in line, and desperately looking for that one item that’s not on the shelf anymore to someone else. Don’t get me wrong, some of the deals offered by the #BFHI stores/vendors are exceptionally good deals but in such limited supply that you’d need a small army of folks to scour the store to seek out that one Golden Fleece and then let the others know where it is.
could care less about black friday, but I did make a point of supporting local businesses including both a deli and a bar